Kindred,
Yes, the Love of the Holy Spirit is always there for you, but only if you can receive it.
If your heart is filled with hate, aggression, jealousy, doubt or hopelessness, then you cannot receive or fill your heart with the Love of the Lord.
When your so-called friend and minister is forsaking the Lord's Laws and the Teachings of Jesus Christ in sins, inappropriate behaviors and hypocrisy, then obviously not walking the walk or receiving the Holy Spirit.
Let us review again the scripture passages,
"Not everyone who calls me 'Lord, Lord' will enter the Kingdom of heaven, but those who do what my Father in heaven wants them to do.
When the Judgement Day comes, many will say to me, 'Lord, Lord! In your name we spoke God's message, by your name we drive out many demons and performed many miracles!'.
Then I will say to them, 'I never knew you. Get away from me you wicked people!'
- Matthew 7: 21-23
Jesus is talking to believers, not non-believers.
What does the Lord want people to do?
What is the covenant?
Will the wicked (Unholies) despite their beliefs or power to "perform miracles" be able to enter heaven?
"Remember that as long as heaven and earth last, not the least point nor the smallest detail of the Law will be done away with - not until the end of all things.
So then , whoever disobeys even the least important of the commandments and teaches others to do the same, will be the least in the Kingdom of heaven. On the other hand, whoever obeys the Law and teaches others to do the same, will be great in the Kingdom of heaven.
I will tell you, then, that you will be able to enter the Kingdom of heaven only if you are more faithful than the teachers of the Law and the Pharisees in doing what the Lord requires."
- Matthew 5: 18-20