Kindred,

I feel like telling that guy, if he is a guy, to "man up", but I know I would be wasting my breath.  

Because, where does the buck stop?  

Apparently, everywhere else, but at his feet.  

Blaming every possible person, but himself for his poor choices and bad decisions.  

Did he take the advice of those closest to him?  

Did he take the advice of his counsel?  

Why then, after he made his bed, does he still insist on blaming others for his bad calls?  

Finding scapegoats and inciting anger, always pointing the finger away from his mistakes and lack of manhood.  

A man takes responsibility for his choices and owns up to his mistakes.  

I have neither the time nor the inclination to waste on poor sports, spoiled brats, and unmanly cowards.  

I would like people to be happy, yes, and not spend their short time on earth always angry and malcontented, finding fault in everyone and everything, instead of looking to help others.  

However, if someone chooses to be angry then that is their choice to remain unhappy and miss out on the good memories in life.  

I find it difficult to not turn my back on poor sport troublemakers, malcontented, because I do not find anything honorable about them.  

You can tell him, if you like that I do not find him to be much of a man, but I wouldn't waste your breath.