Kindred,
Your friend is worse than a three year old child on a temper tantrum with absolutely no self control.
How can your friend think of having total control over someone else when having no control over self?
By the time a child reaches kindergarten, they have mastered some self control.
To devolve into some pathetic weak out of control, undisciplined mess, is quite sad; especially when suppose to be the adult and should know better.
Why so childish?
And why so lacking in self control?