Sexual abuse is not true sexuality because the abuse twists the sexual into the depraved (sins of lust and abuse).
Therefore, sexual abuse is not sexualizing, but terrorizing and grooming into Sodom Gomorrah sins of lust and heinous crimes against humanity.
And sexual abuse is not a turn-on for the victim and honorable persons; but major turn-offs and abuses in harm.
And turn abusers into cockroaches, not sexual (but abusive) and definitely not spiritual (but damned) beings.
No connection between the abusers and the victim, and definitely no relationship; the abuser is connected to the sins of lust and power trips in damnations, not to anyone person.