There is no connection without consent.
The abuser experiences only forced overrides that are connected to the abuser's sin of lust and insecurities of power and control and damnation of desecration*.
The victims feel none of the same feelings of sinful lust, power and control.
None of the emotions match.
The abuser might as well have assaulted and desecrated a corpse, and it would have resulted in the same non-connections and similar sacrilegious sins of desecrating the Lord's temple*.
We are called to honor the Lord by honoring our bodies, not abuse and desecrate it.**
“Do you not know that you yourselves are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit dwells in your midst?”
- 1 Corinthians 3:16
There is no connection to the holy either in abuse and sin.
Those who corrupted their temple are no longer connected or attuned to the Holy Spirit, but to their sins and are unholy, and are no longer known to the Lord.***
Thus, there is no connection to anything good without consent.
* 1 Corinthians 6:19
"Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God?”
1 Corinthians 3:17
**1 Corinthians 6:20
"You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies."
***Matthew 7:23
"And then will I declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness'.”
