Know the difference between EQ and IQ.  

Ruthlessness or gentleness, fear or bravery, negative or positive emotions, has nothing to do with IQ.  

Know the difference between IQ, knowledge and wisdom.  

Having a good strategy in defense and offense does not require emotions- positive or negative;

It should involve unbiased opinions based upon intelligence and spiritual compliance with the Holy Spirit and wisdom;

not selfish motives, psycho power trips and grandiose ambitions;

And it should serve the people, humanity and the Lord.