Kindred,

Firstly, do not stand my person next to anyone, but Elizabeth.  

Secondly, how should I put this politely, are you saying that you're mad at me, because you disrespect and disregard my wishes to not move to a place of your choice concerning my life?  

Thirdly, because you did not get what you want and that somehow justifies you messing with and messing up my life?

Fourthly, if someone did the same things to you without your consent, you're saying you would be perfectly fine with it? 

Fifthly, are you putting my needs, happiness and wellbeing concerning my life first?  

If not, please note that it is my life and I should have a say* in it and you should respect it.

*And by the way, I do have a say in accordance with my civil rights and human rights.