When you have to constantly ask, "Who's your mother and father?"

Or "Who was your mother and father?", then you know that there is a problem with the child.

Were you raised by wolves or snakes? 

What are you?  Instead of who are you?  

This is how you are honoring your mother or father, your ancestors?  

Are you a man or mice or an unholy animal?  

When you constantly have to ask these questions, then there are serious problems with whatever this is.