Kindred,
Are you sure your "Christian" friends have been practicing Christianity?
Why do I not recognize any Christian attributes in any of their words or actions?
Where is the love?
Where is the kindness, empathy and compassion?
There is no aggression or hate in any of the Teachings of Jesus Christ.
Yet, your friend gets off of power trips of aggression and hate, delighting in evil and practicing sins, deadly and unholy.
Terrorism in harassing, abusing and sinful behaviors is not strength or safety and is definitely not Christianity.
Why create more fear or more hate?
Fear and hate are completely opposite of the Teachings of Christ and the Commandments to love.
Are you sure you are followers and servants of Christ?