Kindred,
"When you know the truth;
the truth will set you free."
- John 8:32
When you live a lie, it becomes the separator from anything real; you cannot connect to reality or any real relationship, because connection and the relationship is with a lie and delusions.
Therefore,
"Let us not love with words or tongue,
but with actions in the truth."
- John 3:18
The only way to connect to the Lord is in truth and the belief of that Truth.