Kindred,
Are you sure you have not been groomed?
When false ministers preach to you to "turn the other cheek", and you do nothing, as Unholies molest your children, rape your women and men and abuse your trust; "forgive" sins while the slaves (predending to be gods or pillars of society) to Satan and sins continue to abuse and sin.
The great grooming technique that groomed or false ministers preach, "we are all sinners"; so that you will be accepting of sins, forgiving of sins, allow footholds in sins, practice sins then become slaves to sins and Satan.
And worse, act as if there is forgiveness by the Lord simply be demanding it without going through the process of redemption or having any process (remorseful heart) to receive forgiveness.
And worse still, the false promise that unholy believers will be saved and have salvation simply by calling out Jesus's name; so that the Unholies do not even bother to repent, atone and clean themselves up.
When sinners fail to repent, atone and go through the process of redemption, then the possibilities of both salvation in Heaven and reflections in Purgatory are removed; the only option available to Unholies in this case is Hell (by own choosing and choice).
Again, we are not all sinners.
There is no such thing as automatic forgiveness on demand or command.
Turning the other cheek does not mean let harm happen to you, your children or anyone else; or to let unlimited abuses or sins occur and reoccur.
Do not give footholds in sin(s).
Again, if you have sinned, confess, repent and atone.
