If you fear the same bad things would happen to you or your love ones, then don't let it happen to someone else.
Bad practices, just like a rotten apple in a barrel, spread and get passed on and when the next generation inherits its horrors.
It is the belief of this author that there are different pathways to enlightenment and spiritual understanding. The hope is to develop positive connections and relationships.
One of Dumbledore's most powerful quotes about love is: "Do not pity the dead, Harry. Pity the living, and, above all, those who ...