Kindred,
Braving the truth and taking responsibility for
one's own actions (without blaming innocents)
are vital characteristics of having integrity,
honesty, self-control and empowerment.
Because deflecting the blame, ignoring the
problems, sin(s) and responsibility, gives up
self-contol and self-determination by giving
into and feeding delusions and illusions of
grandeur, power of sin(s) or wishful thinking
not based reality.
Problems are never addressed and fixed, sins
never confessed, repented and atoned for and
character weaknesses and flaws never
corrected or improved upon.
The lies, problems and negative consequences
grow, because no real and effective strategies
are ever developed (in reality to help or
address the situation).
To mask the negative weaknesses and flaws of
character and negative consequences,
exponential increases in abuses of power and
transference of self-loathing and hate into
blaming victims and scapegoats, becomes
common place.
As the increasing losses of character, self-
esteem and negative consequences mount in
the lies told to self and others (in the self
proclaimed, manipulated or ill gotten "wins" of
grandeur thru lies, fraud and sabotage),
the
blame-shifter sinner is doomed to repeat this
vicious cycle of abuses with increasing losses
of
self-contol and empowerment, blame, sins and
shame or self-loathing, until she or he braves
truth, takes responsibility for one's own
actions and confess, repent and atone for sin(s).
Why call out this patterns of bad behaviors,
misconducts and sins?
Because New Year resolutions are useless
without the will to first brave the truth and
face yourself.
Because heaven and salvation will not be
possible for blame-shifter sinners without
redemption; the will to first brave the Truth,
face the Lord, confess, sins, repent and
atone.